30 November 2011

End of the year

"Give me the end of the year an' its fun
When most of the plannin' an' toilin' is done;
Bring all the wanderers home to the nest,
Let me sit down with the ones I love best,
Hear the old voices still ringin' with song,
See the old faces unblemished by wrong,
See the old table with all of its chairs
An' I'll put soul in my Thanksgivin' prayers."
- Edgar A. Guest, Thanksgiving



And a parable found only in Mark in the New Testament:

"And he said, So is the kingdom of God, as if a man should cast seed into the ground; And should sleep, and rise night and day, and the seed should spring and grow up, he knoweth not how. For the earth bringeth forth fruit of herself; first the blade, then the ear, after that the full corn in the ear. But when the fruit is brought forth, immediately he putteth in the sickle, because the harvest is come." (Mark 4:26 - 29)

The temple president's wife spoke of this to us yesterday, teaching how newcomers to Christ - the blade of corn - are tender at first. Christ's kingdom though "bringeth forth fruit"... For all the world...

"... is God's own field,
Fruit unto His praise to yield;
Wheat and tares together sown
Unto joy or sorrow grown.
First the blade and then the ear,
Then the full corn shall appear;
Lord of harvest, grant that we
Wholesome grain and pure may be."
The Thanksgiving Hymn: "Come, Ye Thankful People, Come" (1844)


http://andiwolfe.blogspot.com/2011/10/harvest-time-awaits.html
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Bring all the wanderers home to the nest,
Let me sit down with the ones I love best.

29 November 2011

Merry and bright

Laura and I walked this morning over by her house 
starting out in the pretty darn
COLD!

The sun started up over us and
 I could feel my fingers again.

We started out 
(here we were snugged 
together arm in arm) 
kind of Glum. 
She won't mind 
if I say 
that. 

Puddleglums, 
each of 
us.

http://aaronpocock.wordpress.com/2011/05/12/puddleglum/

"Puddleglum's my name.
But it doesn't matter if you forget it. 
I can always tell you again."
("Chronicles of Narnia'" The Silver Chair)

Eyeores,
in very
fact


Here's a guy
stuffed with sawdust.
Hm.
Often feels quite 
Gloomy. 

"Thanks for noticing me . . ."

There we were. 
We let go arms and picked up our step and 
walking,
talking,
sure enough
as the sun came up
so did our 
dispositions.
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“I want to hear the news.
Don’t try breaking it to me gently for I'd rather have it all at once.
Has the king been shipwrecked?
Any forest fires?
No wars on the Calormen boarder?
Or a few dragons, I shouldn’t wonder?”
 Puddleglum

28 November 2011

Wild turkey

I did a turkey scrap page.
(Wanna see it?)


Bottom of this post

Gobble

(link)


Last year's turkey . . .

Cluck

(link)

27 November 2011

The Benefits of Expressing Gratitude

How giving thanks can change your life


It's still gratitude month, and it seems the posts I've read or written lately have been a lot about that. And of course at church today the talks were on the subject. I'm not sick of it yet - not like the three day-old turkey in my fridge we're eating the last of.

A coupl'a more stories, these from


Thanks for everything
As a teen, Leah Dieterich hated when her mom nagged her to write thank-you notes. But as an adult, she noticed that when she felt grateful she felt more at peace. So she started scribbling notes of gratitude to inanimate objects - $2 bills, the ocean, a headache - and saving them in a box.

"Dear air," she wrote. "Thank you for smelling like cookies right now." To a lip numbed by Novocain, she wrote, "Thank you for not looking like what you feel like you look." In 2009 she started a thankfulness blog "as a way to hold on to some little thing that could make me feel good every day."

Dieterich, 31, is the author of thxthxthx: thank goodness for everything. "And in this era of emails and tweets, nothing compares to a handwritten note from a real person to a real person. It's not just a sign of good etiquette; it's a way to bond. A handwritten note gives you greater focus on the other person," says Kralik, who has penned thank-you letters to more than 700 people during the last four years. "It's almost like a piece of you is in the room with them when they read it."

The grateful rabbi
As a religious person, Rabbi Henry Glazer always sensed that something was missing in his personal relationship with God. One day in 1998 while lifting his prayer shawl over his head at a Jewish retreat, he began sobbing uncontrollably.

A few minutes later, "I felt the need to say to God, the world, the universe, 'Thank you, thank you, thank you,'" recalls Glazer, 71, of Fort Lee, N.J. "I wanted to say thank you for just being alive."

He dubbed himself "The Grateful Rabbi," launched an online blog about gratitude, and self-published a book titled I Thank Therefore I Am: Gateways to Gratefulness. "I complain much, much less now," Glazer says. "Being more grateful has imposed on my life a greater calm, a greater sense of security and optimism and hopefulness."

To dovetail into this last story, in Sunday School we talked about 1 John 4:10 . . . Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us. We discussed that God is, proving through scriptures how He does love us. It is innate in Him; it is law, His way - Godliness in fact, that His love is unconditional for each of us.

The teacher drew us to the Book of Mormon to 1 Nephi 17:35 . . . Behold, the Lord esteemeth all flesh in one; he that is righteous is favored of God. We do get that God's valuing of us is not dependent on anything we do. How is it then that the righteous are "favored" of God? Is it that they are loved more? No. (We do not earn God's love.) Then "favored" must not mean "loved" here.

No, it means "blessed." Consider:

Loved of God is unconditional - my value in His eye never changes.
Blessed of God depends on my being righteous.
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If I can practice receiving God's love in place of sensing "something is missing in my personal relationship with Him," and saying "Thank you, thank you, thank you . . . just for being alive" - as the Grateful Rabbi - then I can express daily

"how thankful I am to be ME!"

And THOSE benefits?

How (oh HOW!) giving thanks for this will change my life! With "a greater calm, a greater sense of security and optimism and hopefulness" now . . . ON to keeping God's commandments!

26 November 2011

Cheaper by the dozen


Did you?


Not me.
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So Erin and Mike and the kids came over yesterday and hung out. I was Skyping with Linda a good friend from Georgia as Erin and Abbie walked in. Becky, Linda's college-age daughter who surprised her by showing up at home for Thanksgiving, was on Skype too and got to meet Erin and Abs on the web cam. We all talked and laughed awhile (it's SO good to see them), then Linda said 'bye and I turned to my daughter. But Abbie spoke my name.

"Nana," she said.

I turned to where she sat on one of my swivel stools at the bar looking very grown up.

"My teacher said I should say the things I'm thankful for since it's Thanksgiving, and the thing I'm most thankful for this year is that Mommy's having a new baby."

!!!!!

I yelp whenever I hear this news, and I did and Abbie smiled and Erin threw back her head and laughed at me. I asked Abbie if she was kidding me (a couple of times, gee) and she must've gotten a kick out of the look on my face because she burst out laughing too. They had me.

It's true.

Erin's expecting.

So it's January for Brad's and Dana's baby girl.

February for Dan and Amy's baby girl.

(And each of these daughters-in-law resembles the pic here minus the purse.)

June for Robert's and Jenny's wedding, bringing his two little boys into our family.

July for Erin and Mike's baby. (Slap that purse on Erin's arm!)


So I might be out shopping on Black Friday next year, right?

For twelve grandchildren.

Cheaper by the dozen.

25 November 2011

Entitlement versus gratitude

I read an online article few days ago (which I posted) on the time we have in life, and on gratitude. It sure makes you think.

"The thing is, sleeping in a warm bed, to most of us,
 is something we take for granted."

Here's another take on the subject. (I've given the linkie if you want to go to the web site.)
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From The Readeaded Hostess
I just looked up “Gratitude” in the dictionary and it says this:  The quality of being thankful.

I love that. I don’t think qualities are something that come and go, it is something that you ARE.  So, you ARE grateful… you don’t just have gratitude today and then not tomorrow.   That is just a fleeting feeling you had… not a quality.

I was just reading about Joseph of Egypt, and I noticed something I have never seen before. Well… I’ve seen it, but not SEEN it. Joseph is a servant in Potiphar’s house and Potiphar’s wife had her eye on him…“And it came to pass after these things, that his master’s wife cast her eyes upon Joseph; and she said, Lie with me.  But he refused, and said unto his master’s wife, Behold, my master wotteth not what is with me in the house, and he hath committed all that he hath to my hand; There is none greater in this house than I; neither hath he kept back anything from me but thee, because thou art his wife:  how then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?” (Genesis 39:7-9)



I have always focused on how Joseph denies her… but I failed to see WHY he did.  Because he is so grateful!  His answer to her was a list of his blessings.  Joseph possessed the quality of being grateful, which became a power in his life and therefore impacted the way he behaved.

When I was in college I worked  in a program for troubled youth.  At the end of every day we had to evaluate each individual on how they did that day.  Each youth had their own list of issues they were working on.  When I first arrived, I noticed something that I didn’t quite understand, but has since proved to be very enlightening.  Although every one of them had drastically different issues I was evaluating them on, there was one that appeared on all of their lists:  entitlement.  Feeling like they deserved something without earning it.  And that issue of feeling like they can take it because they want it, or hit you because they feel like it, or do drugs because I want to… was a thorn in their life that landed them in big trouble and absolutely impacted the way they treated people.  Regardless of what we were doing for them, so often their selfish and immature desires overpowered their ability to see that, and they continued to hide, sneak and do what they felt like.

If entitlement is on one end of the spectrum, Joseph is on the other. “Doing what I feel like,” versus “how can I do that when I have been given so much”?  We all have impulses to do things that are wrong, from treating someone badly to being tempted to sin in some manner…. if we just take a minute and think about what we have, to think about our families and their love for us, to think about Heavenly Father and all that He has given us…  to think about Christ and His priceless gifts to us…  will that not smother our desire to do wrong?  Will that not open our eyes to what is really happening?

So gratitude is not just about saying “Thank You.” It is about having eyes to see and making different choices and behaving differently and being more powerful because of it.  It helps us overcome our impulses to do wrong… and is a key to overcoming the natural man.

24 November 2011

Well done

A.M. on Thanksgiving. ↓



Of course.



We dined at Laura's. Eighteen of us and we were, um, not well fed, we were OVER fed! So good!



We ate (and ate) then some of the party vamoosed for a nap. There were more of us here at the blessing on the food! And a good one that was - Mary Ellen offered it. Talk on this end of the table with the young adults stayed lively! Jamie and Adam, Kaylee, Skylar, Marc, Adrienne and Scott - and Laura stayed in the middle of that. Then there were the parents, to whom Sharm gave much attention - a whole 'nother conversation there. On the far end you see Sam's empty chair (empty because Sam ate fast and disappeared thank you) flanked by Shayla and Stan and Kent and me; not a one of us appear to be in place but Shay. Of course I'm on this end hobnobbing and taking pictures and standing up purely to help digestion! Kent's probably cleaning up at this point and Stan, like Sam, retired on a full stomach.


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23 November 2011

Sure of you



I step lively when my shift at the temple ends each week. I climb the stairs to the main level, fly across the big foyer toward the front door and am out, taking a flight of stairs down from there to the underground parking. (It's a workout.) As a matter of course I can navigate that trip more speedily than I can the road home, which is posted at 30 mph.

This morning I saw Sister Harris come off the elevator near the foyer as I came upstairs. I had my bag with me; some workers leave dress/suit bags and valises in their locker, but I don't. Sister Harris carried her dress bag and her purse and jacket and smiled broadly when she saw me. And isn't she wonderful! She's perhaps in her seventies and walks very carefully and smiles at everyone around her. A few times since I've been there she's winked at me turning up or down stairs while she waits at an elevator door - how steady she is in her service and friendship.

I fell in step with her. You'll not think it strange that it was just natural to stay alongside her passing into the foyer though she wouldn't have thought it discourteous if I'd run by with a wave and a goodbye smile. Today she was almost on my arm.

It was good. Into the foyer together and - she said later it was her dress bag that did it, her one leg didn't step the way it should and she stood on it - she lurched hard, dropping her things and reaching for the floor with a hand, though... she was on my arm and didn't go down. She veered crazily from me in two steps but held to my arm and I to hers. I bore her weight just a moment, then she was still, swaying and embarrassed, but standing.

I tell you what, we were both pretty wide-eyed after that. She picked up her things and we went forward. I was breathless and I guess her heart was pounding; people were staring and it was over before anyone could get to us so the foyer stayed quiet. Sister Harris may have actually hurt herself. Must have been more flustered than she let on and said she was embarrassed but didn't overreact. She said she was glad I was there, and held my hand and said I love you as we went out the front door. Her husband helped her from there.

I trotted down the stairs to my car considering what might have happened if... but none of that. Not a thought. There was not a catastrophe for Sister Harris today and, God willing,

may we
each
be steadied
when
we miss
our
step.

22 November 2011

Mindful

THE DAYS WILL RUN OUT
by Roger Horn

I heard this story recently while listening to a favorite radio show of mine. It was about this homeless man who was detailing some of his experience with homelessness. He told stories of sleeping outside in the rain and waiting for hours to get into an overcrowded shelter.



He told a story about another homeless man, who could speak no English, who told him about how he had spent a sleepless night in a trash compactor because he felt safer and was drier than sleeping out on the street. He didn't get much sleep however, because all night he kept worrying that someone might press “the button.”

The single story he told that stood out in my mind, however, was the story of the time he was offered the job of house-sitting for a friend. As you could imagine, the thought of existing somewhere safely, of being sheltered from the weather, of being able to relax on a couch and watch TV was overwhelming for him. He was excited like a child might be excited before being told that his parents had decided to go out and buy him a brand new bicycle. There was no doubt that he was thrilled about all these things, and he certainly had a right to be. With all that he was about to experience, however, the thing that he looked forward to the most was sleeping. Really? Sleeping? I wondered, how could he be excited about sleeping when he had a house all to himself? The thing is, sleeping in a warm bed, to most of us, is something we take for granted. Something we don’t ever think about. But, as this man detailed, sleeping is tough when you’re homeless. You don’t get much sleep when the cold and wet are invading every inch of your body. Most of the time, when you do sleep, you sleep with one eye open for fear of having something stolen, or being attacked.

So when he first fell like a rough heavy stone into the softness of his friend’s bed that first night, all he could do was lay there looking at the dark quiet ceiling and feel grateful. Then he said something that was special to me. Something that resonated inside me like the assertive crisp ring of a bell. He said the first night was the best. When asked why, he said because he knew he had 16 nights more to go. That every night after, he knew was one less he would be able to enjoy that safe, secure, warm bed.
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Now this story could easily be about gratefulness, about a collective sigh of relief from those of us who know we have a warm bed to go home to tonight. It could also be a call for compassion for those who have less than we do. But it’s more than that for me. For me, it’s about those 16 days—a reminder of the time we all have that is limited. The limited number of days we have to sleep in a warm bed. The fleeting time we have with our families, our spouses. The finite number of times we can smell that beautiful smell in the air as the leaves begin to fall and quietly blanket the ground in autumn. The few opportunities I have to see the look on my 5 year-old daughter’s face when she tells me she loves me. The all too few opportunities I have to feel a hug and a kiss from my wife.

I think of myself over the years, and even now, rushing through days in my job as a software designer in a sort of fog. Thinking about nothing but getting through the next project, the next work week, so I could enjoy the time on the weekend. The stuff I was “getting through” were the flagstones and foundations of my very self. The very things that make up my life. I was smashing through them without respect like a plow through a soft field.

All these things that make up our lives will neither last, nor repeat forever. To capture them and hold on to them is impossible. To even try to is unwise.



The only way to honor them fully then, is to be mindful of each experience we have while it’s happening. Even if that experience is as seemingly mundane as sleeping in a warm soft bed.

“If we are not fully ourselves, truly in the present moment, we miss everything.” ~Thich Nhat Hanh

21 November 2011

Hum-dee-dum-dum

Kent's playing Angry Birds on the iPad and I've just gotten off the phone with Scott who right this moment is about 50 miles from Brad's house in Arkansas. It's late and he's been driving all day and all day the day before, with a stop in Denver overnight at Erin and Mike's . . . and I've been kind of following him mentally. Well - worrying about him. I was invited to visit Robert's mom this morning in SL and I drove down and it was a good time and we compared notes on this deal: how we worry about our kids at all ages. Jenny texted me not an hour and a half ago that she's arrived in Michigan. She's having Thanksgiving with Robert and the boys. She flew from Dallas this morning and had a three hour layover in Chicago; was bored when we talked earlier and she had to wait around.  Erin's actually out of minutes on her cell phone so I haven't talked to her today but I did over the weekend, and she and Mike are mostly settled in their new house. What craziness! They're driving here tomorrow to be with Mike's family and us too for a few days on top of having Mike's parents there a week, and moving, and having Scott stay overnight. Dan and Amy drove all day yesterday and today to Oregon to be with Amy's Grandma, and I got a text late this evening that they're there fine. Chicken and taters for dinner and Grandma's happy we're here, Amy writes. Whew!

Really I don't love having my kids on the road and in the air. All but Brad and Dana are out of their houses, and it's a good thing they're home 'cause Dana's too too close to having the baby to be on a trip. Well, and for that matter so might Amy be, she's only six weeks behind Dana. I imagine she'll keep her feet up at her Grandma's.

I have nothing better than this to post. Other than to share the rainbow arcing over our hillside about midday - so cool. A little something to make me run for my camera. But you only get the one half.



Kent laughed at me when I aimed for the whole thing - or tried. We were right under it!

Okay, here's the other half. I got the last laugh but not a very decent picture.



The rest of the day has been hum-dee-dum-dum because of the rain and cold, and we've been a little wimpy and rather bored.

20 November 2011

Farther up and further in

I sometimes gather inspiration for writing by what I read. I'm fortunate to be reading exactly what I need when I need it! A weird experience actually, but I do think so. I finished Chronicles of Narnia last night, "The Last Battle," which I've remembered (from other times reading it) would thrill me at the end. And so I was eager in the last pages.

You know how you can read a book and know its effect on your intelligence and spirit, yet later not remember details? Okay I'm that way, though you may not be... if you're one of my kids you swallow books whole and bring up details a year later. Well two other times I've read "The Last Battle." And've referred to it talking with Scott, who loves Chronicles, and deep conversation, as together we've proofed C. S. Lewis' affinity for Christ and His kingdom and talked of Life after life. But I hadn't remembered the main story. Just the end.

I wasn't disappointed; reading to the last word gave me goosebumps! What I knew I'd feel I DID again.

Apart from that (but you can't separate it) the story is heavenly. "The End" is a happy place.

"The term is over:" writes Lewis, (speaks Aslan, the Lion) "The holidays have begun. The dream is ended: this is the morning."

There is one sentence I've never forgotten from "The Last Battle." And of course there it is at last, at Aslan's invitation for the children and friends to come "farther up and further in!" They're hurrying. They are! He's bounding ahead and up and they're following and now they're near the top of Narnia... and the Lion says: "You do not yet look so happy as I mean you to be." And they turn to come up farther still.

Another writer Anna Laetitia Waring (1820-1910) brings this full circle for me. See I'm fortunate to be reading exactly what I need (when I need it) and yesterday I happened on "My Heart is Resting, O My God." Of course there I was with my nose on the screen soaking up all this long poem by her and positively loving it, so this morning I looked her up online to see what else she's written. This from "My Savior, on the Word of Truth" is close to the Lion's tender saying, yet the other side - the children's expression.

"Thou knowest that I am not blest,
As thou wouldst have me be,
Til all the peace and joy of faith
Possess my soul in Thee."

Well, lots of fine thoughts to press on with here, but no. If Scott were home I'd gush with him about it because I got him started on it in the beginning and he got me reading it again this year... and he'd smile. How he loves C. S. Lewis! And Chronicles. And deep conversation.

19 November 2011

Flurry

As I vacuumed today I felt really happy. Because I love my house. It finally feels just right.

It's taken almost a year of flurry to settle in.

I always think of leaves swirling in wind when I think flurry. On my back porch in Georgia didn't there used to be whirling leaves on windy winter evenings! Mini-tornadoes at the back door. This I've watched - the flurry on my concrete - and have nodded and said, yes, nothing is at rest.

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There's been a swirl of activity around getting our house the way we want it this year. You remember we moved in then had to move the furniture when we changed out the carpet. By then we'd been here eight weeks and I laugh now to think as we packed the cars and truck in January I was hoping to have pictures hung on the walls here in three!

By spring with our furniture from Georgia in we had about half the house furnished. We typed up a list of things we'd need to buy over time. You'll laugh . . . we prioritized these from 1 to 4, 1 being either something we could afford immediately or (even if it was very expensive) something we'd better not try to do without. You'll really laugh - basil was on the top of the list ($4), and by golly I was looking forward to spring and something beautiful growing on my patio in a pot. Done.

We bought things by and by:  a bed and night stand, recliners, and a flat screen TV and cabinet, our first. We're not modern - we've been happy with our big-box TV. We kept it for the downstairs and put the new TV ↑ up. In June mom and dad moved. Dad asked us to take some furniture, which has filled empty spots in our house beautifully. How could I be any more astonished and grateful?! Other big and small items we've been gifted as we helped clean out my parents' home have been brought over and moved around from here to there in the house for parts of months now. Some of what we'd put in place after the carpet was laid has been moved or given away, and exactly what we needed has been added.

We looked at our list a week or so ago and have crossed off most of it.

A funny thing, the stationary bike finally has a spot in the office after living in goofy places around here, one the laundry room; a small flurry in this house like the leaves on my back porch. Really, who cares . . . it's just that where it is now I do like. I like everything I look at when I work in the house. The dust has settled.

My house, after a whirlwind of a year, finally feels just right.

18 November 2011

Thankful

Today or tomorrow we're shopping for the turkey. Kent was sick two days ago with a headache and I told him (his eyes were closed) all about how we better get to the store soon and start looking because, remember, frozen turkey takes days to thaw.

This, at the end of my posts about ancestors, their struggles, Nature and such prayers for relief...

and miracles. Of God, indeed; His Goodness. Providence. Feasts (of fat things) and Thanksgiving.

There's a feast of fat things for the righteous preparing,
That the good of this world all the saints may be sharing;
~W.W. Phelps

I better wrap it up.

We're setting on a big dinner Thanksgiving Day - with plaid tablecloths, harvest colors and china. And grapefruit slush in little bowls at the top of each plate - our family tradition. Not just Kent and I, though we've done that before for just the two of us in recent years because it makes SUCH good smells in our house (you've gotta have that) and it's delicious - stuffed a great turkey with homemade stuffing and tended it while it steamed under an aluminum foil tent through the morning; made pumpkin pie and mashed potatoes and stirred gravy and warmed buttered sweet corn on the stove. Set on the grapefruit slush. I stop short of a pan of dinner rolls for two.

No, not just him and me.

We're eating over at Laura's with her family and whichever nieces and nephews come. My kids are out, all. And Mom and Dad. We're setting on a big dinner like always - and I can't tell you how grateful I feel to be able to go to the store and buy it all.

Lots of times after a regular meal here I'll say thank you to Kent for it. He used to say thank you right back - you cooked it he said the first time, surprised. It wasn't that . . . it's his hard work, his resources, that bought it and I'm thankful. Grateful we live in a time you trade your dollar at the store for the groceries and bring them home and put them in the fridge or cupboard. A meal, then, might be just warming something up. Potatoes you've got to peel, but that's no big deal; you get my point. I can't tell you how glad I am we turn to our pantry and what we need is there.

Which brings me to the turkey. We're out in a day or two to bring him home. Did I already say Kent will do a masterful job dressing and cooking him?

(likely these have been on the blog before - 2010)


Kent's in charge of this even this year with near twenty of us. There'll be smells in the house!

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No matter



how we gather



to the table



for Thanksgiving,



whether family...



or just us...



... how thankful we are for this good meal, and every meal.

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Sing to the Lord of harvest, sing songs of love and praise;
With joyful hearts and voices your Alleluias raise.
By Him the rolling seasons in fruitful order move;
Sing to the Lord of harvest a joyous song of love.

By Him the clouds drop fatness, the deserts bloom and spring,
The hills leap up in gladness, the valleys laugh and sing.
He filleth with His fullness all things with large increase,
He crowns the year with goodness with plenty and with peace.

17 November 2011

The Feast



"The gulls destroyed thousands of insects during a three-week period—enough in fact to make the difference between disaster and a respectable harvest. With the end of crop damage farmers quickly replanted. By midsummer spirits had revived and, once again, there was prospect of a good harvest."

"As thoughts turned thankfully to God for the coming harvest, it was natural to set aside a day for thanksgiving. Thursday August 10 was the day selected. By that date the wheat harvest would be complete, other grains available, and vegetables plentiful."

"At 9:00 a.m. that thanksgiving day, several hundred Saints gathered for the celebration. Festivities opened with the raising of a traditional American symbol of freedom—a Liberty Pole sporting a white flag. Sheaves of grain decorated the pole beneath the flag: wheat and barley and oats—and a single ear of green corn. While the flag was raised, the cannon was fired, the band played, and the people cheered then shouted to the mountains: 'Hosannah to God and the Lamb, for ever and ever, Amen.'”

"Young and old then seated themselves on log benches under the bowery. With instrumental accompaniment they sang Parley P. Pratt’s Harvest Song composed especially for the occasion. After a few speeches by prominent leaders, Elder Taylor offered the prayer of praise and thanksgiving."

"The feast itself was the centerpiece of the celebration. As noon approached, a bugle sounded and the hungry crowd rearranged the benches and put dishes and utensils on the tables. Everyone brought something of such as they had to make the dinner which was accomplished in good stile, recorded one. A Splendid Dinner was Spread under the Bowery prepared for the occasion and Several hundred sat down to a rich repast to which all contributed, noted another."

As the feast ended music and dancing began. "With the tables cleared and benches removed, the bowery accommodated fifty couples at a time in cotillions, quadrilles, Virginia reels, and other dances. This continued throughout the afternoon, the 'gray headed, the middle aged and the youth all in one Common Caus[e] of rejoicing and pleasure.'"

"There had been near-starvation times and there might be more, but the Lord had blessed them with harvest."



"It would be a time of joyful celebration of feasting “on what the Lord had blessed them with in this desert land." (Utah’s First Thanksgiving, Ronald Esplin)

16 November 2011

Thank Heaven

"The pioneers had noticed crickets when they first entered the valley. William Clayton commented in July 1847 that the ground seemed alive with large black insects. Orson Pratt described crickets the size of a man’s thumb. Some pioneers had recognized the potential threat, but nothing of the magnitude they ultimately encountered." Establishing Zion, Eugene E. Campbell

Mary Ann Phelps Rich . . ."In the spring we plowed the ground, planted gardens and made ditches, but as quick as the crops came up fairly good the crickets and grasshoppers came and ate everything."

"In the face of this threat, the pioneers tried everything imaginable to keep the crickets from destroying their crops.



They surrounded their fields with water in irrigation ditches, hoping to drown the insects. When they discovered that crickets were cannibalistic, they piled large mounds of crickets near the borders of their fields to divert others. Sticks, clubs, brooms, branches, and willows were used to knock the black creatures off the plants, and fires were built in long rows in hopes of consuming the insects. Some settlers learned that crickets disliked certain noises, so they pounded on pans and rang bells to try to turn them away from the fields. One of the most unusual techniques was that tried by John Young. He and his brother pulled a rope back and forth across the tops of the grain to knock off the climbing crickets before they could reach the heads of the wheat."Establishing Zion, Eugene E. Campbell

"We all had to turn out and fight them," writes Sister Rich, "until our hands were blistered."

"And then, just when despair filled their hearts, the Lord sent a miracle. Gulls by thousands came up from the great lake, and fell upon the devouring crickets. They gorged themselves with the insects." Brigham Young and His Mormon Empire, Frank J. Cannon and George L. Knapp



"'Their coming was like a great cloud,' writes John Smith; 'and when they passed between us and the sun, a shadow covered the field. I could see gulls settling down for more than a mile around us.' It appeared to the pioneers that the birds’ main objective was to kill the crickets rather than feed on them. After filling their stomachs, the birds would regurgitate the indigestible parts of the insects and return to the fields for more. George Q. Cannon, for example, concluded this after walking along the ditches where he saw lumps of crickets, vomited up by those gulls." Establishing Zion, Eugene E. Campbell

Is it natural for a gull to feed like that? No matter . . . the bugs were voracious and so, thank Heaven, were the birds!

15 November 2011

Fear of Starvation

So the Utah settlers had their first Harvest Feast in August 1848. But in the months prior every family, every individual, faced starvation. Mary Ann Phelps Rich, a child of the persecutions in Missouri in the 1830s who came to the Rockies with her husband, wrote in her autobiography:

"During that winter of 1847-48 we had a hard time . . . We had a few cows and sheep and one or two horses, but they were all poor and some of the cattle that we had worked on the road, which were in reality not fit to eat, but we were obliged to kill some for meat in order to subsist and make our provisions hold out. We soon found that we had to live on rations or we would not have any bread stuff, so we lived on three ounces a day for a great length of time, but we had milk and we could dig segoes and cook greens and thus we existed."

By Parley Pratt's account they'd struggled to grow crops in the untried climate, in drought and without proper knowledge of how to irrigate. "Eight hundred and seventy-five acres of grain had been planted, partly in the fall, partly in early spring; and the Saints began to feel that their chief task was to endure till the reaping . . ." " . . . this optimistic view changed suddenly when a killing frost destroyed almost all of the garden vegetables in late May." "But the pioneers believed that if a man did all in his power to solve a problem, God would step in and do the rest. With this philosophy, they prayed for rain even as they irrigated. They covered vegetable gardens against the frost even as they prayed that God would prolong the growing season." (Brigham Young and His Mormon Empire, Frank J. Cannon and George L. Knapp, Establishing Zion, Eugene E. Campbell, and Utah’s First Thanksgiving, Ronald Esplin)

Two extremes the Saints faced from May on: Frost, and crickets.



"And the crickets! They came so unexpectedly, and in such hordes, that nothing, it seemed, could prevent total destruction of the crops." (Esplin)

"Harriet Young gave the first detailed account: 'Today to our utter astonishment the crickets came by the millions sweeping everything before them. They first attacked a patch of beans for us, and in twenty minutes there was not a vestige of them to be seen. They next swept over the peas, then came into our garden and took everything clean. We went out with a brush and undertook to drive them, but they were too strong for us.'"

"The next day Isaac Haight recorded, 'Frost again this morning. Things killed in the garden such as beans, cucumbers, melons, pumpkins and squash. Corn hurt some and some wheat killed, and the crickets are injuring the crops.” On the same day, Harriet Young added, “Last night we had a severe frost; today the crickets have commenced on our corn and small grain. They had eaten off twelve acres for Brother Rosencrantz, seven for Charles, and are now taking Edmund’s.'"

"The following day the crickets destroyed three-fourths of an acre of squashes, our flax, two acres of millet, our rye, and are now to work in our wheat; what will the result be, we know not."

"John Steele, summarizing the previous week, wrote, 'There is great excitement in camp; there has come a frost which took beans, corn, and wheat, and nearly everything and to help make the disaster complete, the crickets came by the thousands of tons.'"

"The same day, Haight reported, 'It was cold and very dry. Crops began to suffer for want of rain. The crickets destroyed some crops eating the heads of grain as soon as the heads are out.'"

"Steele and Haight both feared that the Saints would be forced to leave the valley, and John Young urged that a letter be sent to his brother Brigham, warning him not to bring any more Mormons into the valley that year for fear of starvation." (Campbell)

14 November 2011

Thanksgiving too

The Pilgrims almost starved settling in America. So did the pioneers settling in the Great Salt Lake Basin a hundred and fifty years ago. I’m impressed with how absolutely unkind nature showed herself to be, both times (1621-1623 and 1847-1848) battling those settlers. And almost removed from them it would seem was Fortune, Providence itself, for a season. Like with the Pilgrims though the “Mormons” ended up okay.

Here’s a great book! The Autobiography of Parley P. Pratt. Brother Pratt writes about that time . . .

"We had to struggle against great difficulties in trying to mature a first crop. We had not only the difficulties and inexperience incidental to an unknown and untried climate, but also swarms of insects



equal to the locusts of Egypt, and also a terrible drought, while we were entirely inexperienced in the art of irrigation; still we struggled on, trusting in God."

"During this spring and summer my family and myself, in common with many of the camp, suffered much for want of food. This was the more severe on me and my family because we had lost nearly all our cows, and the few which were spared to us were dry, and, therefore, we had no milk to help out our provisions. I had ploughed and subdued land to the amount of near forty acres, and had cultivated the same in grain and vegetables. In this labor every woman and child in my family, so far as they were of sufficient age and strength, had joined to help me, and had toiled incessantly in the field, suffering every hardship which human nature could well endure. Myself and some of them were compelled to go with bare feet for several months, reserving our Indian moccasins for extra occasions. We toiled hard and lived on a few greens and on thistle and other roots. We had sometimes a little flour and some cheese, and sometimes we were able to procure from our neighbors a little sour skimmed milk or buttermilk."

"In this way we lived and raised our first crop in these valleys. And how great was our joy in partaking of the first fruits of our industry."

"On the 10th of August we held a public feast under a bowery in the center of our fort. This was called a harvest feast; we partook freely of a rich variety of bread, beef, butter, cheese, cakes, pastry, green corn, melons, and almost every variety of vegetable. Large sheaves of wheat, rye, barley, oats and other productions were hoisted on poles for public exhibition, and there was prayer and thanksgiving, congratulations, songs, speeches, music, dancing, smiling faces and merry hearts."

I'd almost like to do a series this week. I thought it really unpredictable that after reading to myself Five Kernels of Corn (like a gift) and blogging about it, the same day I would read Parley Pratt's account of the Latter-day Saints' struggles . . . and their thanksgiving feast. I said before I rarely touch on stories like this; I guess I mean I only lightly do because they feel so hard and I'm so soft; I'm not sure how to even imagine what they went through. Why did it have to be so?

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More to come.

13 November 2011

Thanksgiving

I'm all over the map I guess with my posts . . .  Christmas the last one and this will be about Thanksgiving. Because I've been sorting. What's been on top of a pile now on my computer desk - culled from the mess on my craft table these three months - is what I'm blogging about.

Five cute ornaments stared me in the face a day or two from this desktop, and now this: Five Kernels of Corn.



And haven't you heard the story of Five Kernels of Corn? (Scroll fast past if you have, or don't have time to linger.) It's an oldie but goodie.

"It was a cold, gray day on November 15, 1620. The Mayflower rode at anchor near the shore while a group of eager men set out in a small boat to explore the desolate, barren land to which they'd come. One of the first things they discovered near the beach was a deserted cornfield where the dry, broken stalks rustled in the sharp wind. Nearby they saw several strange mounds. Digging into one, they were amazed to find odd-looking yellow, red and blue Indian corn. They took some with them to use for seed when they planted their crops in the spring."

"They couldn't know then how important that corn would prove to be to the colony's future"

"They weren't prepared for that first dreadful winter, and there was much sickness. Nearly half the colonists died before spring finally arrived. Of those who survived about half were children not yet sixteen years old; and only five married women remained."

"When spring came the men and boys planted 20 acres of Indian corn. Six additional acres they planted with the seeds they'd brought from England - wheat, rye, barley and peas - and there were vegetable gardens near the houses. But to everyone's dismay the seeds they'd brought failed to produce, being unsuited to the growing conditions in New England. The colonists worried whether they'd have enough food for the winter."

"Grain crops were necessary for their survival for they provided the bread and puddings that gave them the energy they needed to work and endure the harsh conditions in which they lived and the nourishment the children needed for adequate growth. To supplement their store of grain they learned, with help from the Indians, to catch the fish, to shoot the fowl and deer, and to harvest the wild fruits and berries that the forest and sea provided. They dried and preserved as much as they could in anticipation of another long winter with little grain."

"In late fall, despite their small corn harvest, they felt confident and grateful for what they'd accomplished. They decided to celebrate what they called the Harvest Thanksgiving. They were joined by 90 of their Indian friends who stayed for three days enjoying their hospitality. This was an unexpected drain on their food supplies but they believed that by careful management they would have enough to last until the next year."

"The ship Fortune arrived a few days later. The happy Pilgrims expected to welcome members of their families and friends who had been left behind. They also believed the ship would bring food and other provisions they needed. They were distressed to learn, however, that it brought 35 colonists instead. Most of them were young men who brought no tools, bedding, or food, possessing little more than what they wore. There was nothing for the Pilgrims to do but to share their meager clothing, their homes, and their precious food with the strangers. They also had to supply food to the sailors of the Fortune for their long voyage back to England."

"For the next six months the colonists lived on half rations and every colonist knew daily hunger. During the summer they were thin and weak and staggered as they went about their work. They might have perished had they not been able to obtain some grain from the English fishing villages further along the coast of Maine. And their harvest that fall was meager because they were still unfamiliar with growing this strange corn. Some that did mature was stolen, but primarily they were simply too weak to tend it properly. It was then that they abandoned their communal methods and apportioned land to each man to plant and farm as he wished."

"While the year before had been very bad, the Starving Time came upon the little colony the spring of 1623. Tradition tells us that each person received only five kernels of parched corn a day."

"To add to their misery the early summer weather was hot and dry and the corn began to wither. In desperation they went one day to the top of the hill to pray to God for relief. That night a soft rain began to fall and the drought was broken. At harvest every field produced an abundance of corn, with enough for everyone. After nearly three years the famine was over.style="font-size: x-small;"> by Norma Q Hare (written in 1986 and slightly edited by Mary Mitchell in 2008)
And so, what? So what?"

"I don't know. I've saved the story for writing a poem about some day, and to keep with other Pilgrim books and stories I've been given - because William Bradford is my eighth-great-grandfather.  I've been given that too as a heritage. And because isn't it inspiring? I cannot fathom the times of my progenitors, either that long ago or a mere hundred and fifty years ago. Can't fathom being oppressed or so courageous; without, and so generous. Only once in a while do I touch on stories like this because they feel so hard. Yet, didn't I love the part about them praying to God for relief?"

Don't bring me Spring in winter, or in deepest night, the Day;
But Hope in Thee to see by, full Faith to kneel and pray . . .
(This poem is in me, it'll pop out sometime!)

I'm inspired to want the positive attitude and prayerful soul of the Pilgrims. Governor Bradford wrote, ". . . our victuals are spent, not knowing at night where to have a bite in the morning, and have neither bread nor corn for 3 or 4 months together; yet [we]bear our wants with cheerfulness and rest on Providence."

This is Thanksgiving.

11 November 2011

After all this time

You can't believe the pile I've had on my craft table downstairs for three months. Binders and page protectors filled with memorabilia from mom and dad's house; photos and papers; e-mails, letters; cards I've made or bought and given. A whole lot else . . . all belonging to or given to me or my children. Grandma and Grandpa are letting everything come home.

I spun on my bike downstairs early this morning eying the mess and saying today is the day!

What piles there've been here since the work ended at mom and dad's and Sarah went home. And after, even. Imagine finding five cupboards-full of cleansers, etc., in that house I'd left to clean with. Well, and overlooked by the end. They came home with me the day I found them but in a few hours went out with my niece who had nothing like that. Please! Last week I went through three boxes of medical and First Aid supplies, toiletries and leftover stuff from dad's surgery five years ago. The week before last Kent and I organized six shelves of books, nine if you count the shelves behind the door in my closet, yes, separated out what goes to who in the family and carted the rest in cardboard boxes to the book exchange. Mark call me, I need to send you yours. I sorted every piece of artificial greenery in October, cleaning it and placing some around my house; and there's extra. And didn't we hide two enormous boxes of office supplies and paper in a spare bedroom closet?

Kent and I opened one of two BIG boxes of Christmas stuff this morning that've been taking up space under the stairs, and found lights. A plethora
we untangled and tested for about an hour, saving in a plastic baggy spare light bulbs and fuses for sets that work. Whew, one down and one to go - holiday stuff for mom and dad's apartment we'll bring over in a few weeks (and don't bring much dad says, though mom wants it) and to decorate with here for when they visit during the holidays. Their things displayed in our home may may be reminders of good times past.

So I open up these binders this morning with some wonderment, knowing there's lots to sort through. And talk about reminder!  I found these cuties inside a sheet protector - and a blast from the past they are! These were made and mailed to mom and dad in December 1988.

Jenny, 12


Erin, 10


Brad, 8


Daniel, 6


Scott, 3


First Christmas out of the box for me this year . . . and after all this time. :)

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